All my ex-boyfriends got married after dating me. Is that bad?

I got a phone call from an ex-boyfriend yesterday. He happened to be in my side of town (after three years, quite surprisingly). He told me he got married in a rush (two years ago) to his next-door neighbour. I congratulated him and asked him which of our common friends he was still in touch … Continue reading All my ex-boyfriends got married after dating me. Is that bad?

Dating an impotent man for 7 years

For those of you who think impotence is a man's problem, consider the woman's perspective. She starts off feeling unattractive because she can't do something as simple as turning her man on. The fragile male ego does not help as her partner tries to emotionally blackmail her into staying in the relationship. It takes years … Continue reading Dating an impotent man for 7 years

How to tell if it is love… or lust

By Kasmin Fernandes | You can't wait to get cosy the moment you see her. His luscious lips are the first thing that come to mind when you shut your eyes. Her perfume lingers in your mind long after the date is over. There's nothing wrong with having the hots for the person you're dating … Continue reading How to tell if it is love… or lust

Guest post: Why I started writing love letters to a kitten

Attempting to achieve new heights in already high levels of 'crazy cat lady'-ness, Simona Terron has begun actually corresponding with her cat. Online. Publicly. The genesis It all began when I came across Series, a new kind of publishing format on the online platform for writers, Medium.com where readers could follow an author’s work as … Continue reading Guest post: Why I started writing love letters to a kitten

5 lessons on modern love from the movie, HER

The film Her had a lot more lessons about life and relationships than about the future (in which it's set) and (its theme) artificial intelligence. I was three years too late to watch Spike Jonze's Her (2013). In my defence, the reason I stayed away from the film was because of its sombre premise that alluded to loneliness … Continue reading 5 lessons on modern love from the movie, HER